There are issues in life that are extremely hard to deal with. A counselor can help, but only God can truly meet the need.
"And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus." -Philippians 4:19
It can be difficult to understand the pain and heartache of life. We must face the issues head-on and look to Jesus to give us the ability to take that very difficult situation and turn it into something that can make us into the individual He wants us to be, and then to use us as a blessing to help others.